Just some thoughts, but people are always hating. The shitty part is, it’s mostly girls that fall into this hating bullshit. If we’re not hating on other girls, were hating on ourselves. Don’t get me wrong, I consider myself a total feminist and I don’t like to make gender generalizations, but I think that society ends up pressuring us to be this way and it sucks.
We hate on ourselves because we’re never as beautiful as we’re supposed to be (according to who, I don’t even know), and were hating on other girls for whatever the hell we can think of. She’s a skank, she’s ugly, she’s a birch. I’m sick of it. I sound like a hypocrite, since I know I’ve said all of these things and more about other girls, but I really am trying to make a conscious effort to stop. The shitty part is, the the thing that’s nearly always the subject of all this hate is a persons appearance. If its not appearance, then it’s how much she gets with guys. Either way though, it’s not like guys are hating on other guys for being “ugly” or a “slut”. Hell, if you’re ugly and also manage to be a slut in guy world you’re pretty much winning the game.
I’d much rater be critiqued on my accomplishments, my intelligence, my talents, really anything besides looks. Something that might actually matter in 10 years. At least then it’s the real me, it’s something I can do something about.
So, fellow ladies, lets be friends.